Why Do We Keep Apologizing? A Relational Perspective
by Abu UmairNovember 6, 2024 Anxiety and Stress, childhood, Miscellaneous, Parenting and Families, psychology, society, subversion, therapy, Treatments0 comments
Apologizing can be a healthy way to acknowledge mistakes, repair relationships, and show respect. However, some of us seem compelled to apologize constantly—even when it isn’t necessary. This pattern of over-apologizing can reveal deep-rooted emotional and relational dynamics. From a psychoanalytic and relational perspective, frequent apologizing may stem from early life experiences,...
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The Healing Power of Psychotherapy: More Than Just Uncovering the Past
by Abu UmairSeptember 27, 2024 childhood, psychology, resistance, society, therapy, Treatments, Uncategorized0 comments
Understanding the Essence of Psychotherapy
Psychotherapy is often seen as a powerful tool for healing, yet the nature of this healing is frequently misunderstood. While many believe that our mental struggles stem from past experiences we have repressed or forgotten, the truth is that healing is a multifaceted journey. The conventional view posits that traumatic moments from our past—be it...
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Subversion of Women in Indian Society: A Mask of Patriarchy Hidden in Jokes
by Abu UmairSeptember 20, 2024 Parenting and Families, patriarchy, resistance, society, subversion0 comments
In Indian society, patriarchy is woven deeply into the fabric of family structures, social institutions, and everyday life. Men have long used subtle and overt means to subvert women’s voices and expressions, maintaining dominance in ways that are both glaring and insidious. Feminist scholars have extensively explored the ways men subordinate women, laying bare the various strategies through...
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Childhood: Why Does it Matter?
by Abu UmairSeptember 9, 2024 Child Anxiety, childhood, Parenting and Families, psychology, Uncategorized0 comments
For over a century, we’ve accepted a compelling idea about human nature: that our childhoods set the tone for our adult lives. According to psychotherapists, those early years influence how we love, trust, and relate to ourselves and others. Yet, despite the intellectual appeal of this concept, many of us struggle to feel its truth deeply. Can those distant, hazy years really hold the...
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The Essence of Psychology and Psychotherapy: A Deep Dive into Human Connection and Understanding
by Abu UmairAugust 19, 2024 Anxiety and Stress, Depression, Miscellaneous, psychology, therapy, Treatments0 comments
Psychology and psychotherapy, at their core, are about understanding the intricacies of the human mind, emotions, and behaviors. The essence of these fields lies in the deep, often transformative relationships between therapist and client, where healing and growth occur through exploration, insight, and connection. From the pioneering ideas of Sigmund Freud to the evolving theories of...
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The State of Mainstream Psychology in India: A Patch on Capitalism
by Abu UmairFebruary 19, 2023 capitalism, Child Anxiety, Miscellaneous, Parenting and Families, psychology, therapy, Treatments0 comments
Psychology has historically been seen as a vital field dedicated to understanding the human mind and behavior, fostering well-being, and addressing mental health issues. But lately, it feels like the field is being co-opted by capitalism, especially within corporate settings. This shift has compromised the essence of psychology, reducing it to a tool that serves economic interests rather...
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