
Kumbh Mela and the Militant of Science, Logic and Psychology: A Reflection on Belief and Rationality
The Kumbh Mela, one of the largest religious gatherings in the world, has once again drawn millions of devotees to Prayagraj. With its grandeur comes an influx of videos and clips showcasing the various babas and sadhus who have gathered to seek and share spiritual experiences. However, in the age of social media and an increasingly rationalistic worldview, these figures are facing an...
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Living in Survival Mode: How Modern Age Reshapes Our Minds and Relationships?
by Abu UmairJanuary 22, 2025 adolescents, Adoption, Guardianship, Anxiety and Stress, capitalism, Child Anxiety, childhood, Miscellaneous, Parenting and Families, psychology, resistance, society, subversion, therapy, Treatments0 comments
In today’s fast-paced, hyper-competitive world, our bodies and minds are constantly subjected to the relentless demands of capitalism. The modern age forces our nervous system to navigate a world where rest is seen as laziness, productivity is the sole measure of worth, and scarcity is an ever-present reality. Under such pressures, our mental well-being is compromised, and our relationships...
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The Socio-Psychogenesis of Suicide in Kota: A Psychologist’s Reflections
by Abu UmairJanuary 10, 2025 adolescents, Anxiety and Stress, capitalism, Depression, education, Miscellaneous, Parenting and Families, psychology, resistance, society, subversion, suicide, therapy, Uncategorized0 comments
As a psychologist working in Kota, I am deeply immersed in the lives of students who come to this city, carrying the weight of countless expectations. These young individuals, often between the ages of 15 and 23, leave their families and familiar surroundings to prepare for some of India’s most competitive entrance exams, such as JEE and NEET. While some of their stories are inspiring, they...
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Reclaiming Your Voice: The Journey to Expressing Needs Through a Relational Lens
For many, the idea of expressing personal needs feels uncomfortable, even selfish. Whether it is saying “no” to something draining or “yes” to a long-desired opportunity, articulating our needs often stirs feelings of guilt or shame. These struggles are not just individual challenges but are rooted in relational and societal dynamics that shape how we perceive ourselves...
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Why We Avoid Difficult Talk: A Psychoanalytic and Relational Perspective
Difficult conversations are an integral part of human relationships. Yet, many of us find ourselves hesitating—even resisting—when faced with the need to address uncomfortable topics. Whether it is confronting a friend about a misunderstanding, telling a partner how they hurt us, or discussing failures with a mentor, these moments evoke a range of emotions that compel us to avoid rather than...
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Tragic Case of Atul Subhash: Why Discrediting Feminism Fails Men and Women Alike
The recent tragic suicide of Atul Subhash, who left behind a harrowing hour-long video blaming his wife and in-laws for his suffering, has sparked heated debates across India. His death has become more than a personal tragedy—it has evolved into a flashpoint for conversations around men’s mental health, familial abuse, and gender-based struggles. Yet, amid calls for justice, another troubling...
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Why You Should Not Always Be a “Good” Child?
In today’s world, where mental health awareness is on the rise, discussions about emotional well-being often overlook the pressures tied to being a “good child.”From childhood, being a “good” child is presented as the highest virtue. Parents, teachers, and society often praise children who are well-behaved, responsible, and emotionally self-sufficient. These children avoid conflict, fulfill...
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